I am at my wits end - my DD (11, almost 12) is in her first year at senior school, and I just feel there is constant drama with friendships. She's struggled a lot with friendships, and I know she does contribute to the drama at times.
I am constantly telling her to walk away from things, but no matter what others have done she always seems to be the one that is excluded from group, told on to teachers and generally having a really rubbish time.
We did get her some counselling, which she wouldn't continue with, but some things came out about her not feeling good enough and how she feels she just isn't getting it in terms of relationships. We've been through a pretty rocky time the two of us - but she had become a lot better and I am working as hard as I can to support her, to model good relationships and to provide good boundaries.
She's gone into school this morning very upset because there's been further fall outs, she doesn't want me to speak to the school - but I just don't know what to do.
Have any others experienced this? And does it get any better!