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Leg hair removal for tween girls

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Mumoftwoinprimary · 03/10/2022 11:24

Dd is 12. Just started periods so puberty is now in full force.

She is fair haired so although there is hair on her legs it is currently very blonde although I think that her legs are getting hairier. She is very sporty so wears shorts a lot.

So far she hasn’t said anything about leg hair but she is quite private so more the type to worry to herself than admit to me that there is a problem.

Just wondering what the best thing is for leg hair for girls these days. I use a bladed razor in the shower but I have memories of cutting myself really badly as a teen.

An electric “lady shave” might be better maybe? Although once she starts shaving her leg hair won’t be as blonde so it becomes an endless job.

I remember creams as a teen but they were all a bit crap and smelly.

Waxing is probably best and we have the money to take her to a proper salon but she is very adverse to injections etc so suspect she might not be enthusiastic.

I want to have the conversation with her and make her feel like there are options if she wants to get rid of the hair and that I can help but I also want her to feel that if she doesn’t agree with removing the hair / can’t be bothered then that is ok too. It is a touchy subject for me as I remember being teased about leg hair in my teens. (My mum did not have the conversation with me as she didn’t approve of leg shaving.) Then I found razors and just got on with it.

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pimlicoanna · 04/10/2022 23:29

If she wants to use something I'd just go for a razor.

basilmint · 04/10/2022 23:29

PrunellaMcTat · 04/10/2022 23:20

My dd is 16 and has never bothered. She doesn't see why she should. She is a swimmer, often wears shorts, is pretty, has plenty of friends, a busy social life, and various boys asking her out. I admit that she is not the norm, but it is perfectly possible to choose not to. She says if the boys don't have to, why should she? She likes her body just as it is. I wish I had her confidence.

Your DD sounds like a lovely, self-assured young woman. I hope my DDs grow up with the same body-confidence.

PrunellaMcTat · 04/10/2022 23:42

Thanks @basilmint . I think she's fab, but I'm a bit biased 😁

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