Sorry didn’t finish off writing the post, I new to this thread, she can literally be fine one minute then she just starts crying for no reason or is constantly winging , her recent tantrum was at my sister in laws party, she had been with her friend on the garden for most of the day and she knew we had a party to go to, i then Called her in as she needed to get ready, she got herself ready but then sat on her bed refusing to go saying she was tired, I managed to get her out the house eventually but 20 minutes into the party she did nothing but moan saying she was cold, she’s tired, etc and then started to cry, I took her upstairs into the bathroom where I tried to calmly speak to her saying we were at a party and we wasn’t going home just yet, she carried on crying, coughing loud and gagging, even kicked the walls, I tried to ignore her and walk out which made things worse , i then tried again with her to calm her down which everntually it worked and we came back downstairs and it was like nothing happened, this isn’t the first time, she has done this so many times before, there’s been times when she hasn’t been out with her friends and I’ve gone to my sisters house which she has started moaning and iv had to come home, pretty much every were I go she complains , it’s not all the time but the majority of the time she complains or cries, she is Always out with her friends or like I said we can go and visit people and she’s fine, so it’s not like she’s anxious about leaving the house, I just don’t no what’s wrong with her, if I ask her when she’s calmed she just says it’s because she’s tired but even if I’m home she doesn’t go to sleep straight away, I have tried grounding her or taking her tablet off her, and saying she upsets me when’s acting like that way but it makes no difference , where am I going wrong ?