DS10 is almost 11 and we ask him to get into bed around 8-8:15pm but then we may read to him for 15-20 minutes and he always continues reading until lights out around 9-9:15pm. He gets plenty of sleep and always seems refreshed and certainly not sleep deprived, always awake in time for school.
Recently he has started getting upset at us asking him to go to bed around 8pm. Part of me can see his point of view as we do not put his lights out until around an hour later, although he LOVES reading. What is putting me off a later bed time though is:
- DS9 has always gone to bed at the same time in his own bedroom but he only reads until 8:30pm as he needs more sleep. They both fall to sleep more easily if they read in bed before lights out. After a lifetime of having the same bedtime, DS9 is going to be really upset at being expected to go to bed earlier than his brother. A later bedtime wouldn't suit him.
- I really do not want to give up another hour of my evening having spent all day with two full on children, who I adore, but am exhausted by. Selfish I know. I fully appreciate though that at some point DS10 is going to have to start to go to bed later..
Any thoughts or experiences to share?
Thanks for getting this far. I've even bored myself typing this out!