Hi all, my 12 year old daughter is a little immature, born late in the year, lovely and sweet but has anxiety and is eager to please her friends. Very sensitive to criticism. So she wore her new winter jacket to school, which is a shorter style of jacket. And of course a couple of girls had to comment on the length of the jacket, also, what size is your jacket? Can you wear it next winter? Weird questions as far as I'm concerned, which I think were out of jealousy. Either way, her friend's mom let me know that her daughter told her that my daughter didn't wear her jacket outside at lunch because of this situation. So obviously she was feeling insecure about the interrogation about the jacket. We talked about it tonight, and I think I handled it properly. Now my issue is...I actually never wanted her to get the short jacket, I wanted her to get the longer one but she was very stubborn about it and I gave in. Now she wants to swap this one out for a longer one. Which I actually do want her to do. But am I giving in to her doing this because perhaps she wants to 'please' or placate these other girls who were giving her a hard time? I don't want to fix everything for her when life goes wrong but at the same time...I actually think she should have a longer winter jacket! I was never supported in any situation I was in as a preteen/teen so I have trouble navigating these things. Thank you.