My dd 10 is struggling to find friends. She is in a combined class of 70 but still has issues. I was secretly relieved she didn’t have to go to school to give her a break from the daily struggle to find someone to play with but now COVID19 is lifting, other people are starting to play out. She tried going to 3 house today to play. One girl she used to be friends with- every time she calls her mum says she is busy. The other two also made their excuses. She is in bits and I don’t know what to do.
I ask her brother and he says she is often alone. He says she has a bad rep for shouting at people ( generally if in her eyes they are being mean or trying to make her jealous l) which I think they do and apparently also for being not v sporty.
She goes to loads of clubs and still seems to struggle. I think she is on the autistic spectrum due to not picking up on social skills and a few other things. She is intelligent and talented in other areas, mainly singing. But I find it hard to know who to ask for play dates when mums keep saying no.
Do you think I should speak to mothers why they wontmplay? Should I move schools?
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Lushmetender · 05/07/2020 19:40
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