heyyy I'm not a parent if you read my username but like I wanna see what other parents would say about this I hope that other parents reactions help my mum to see what she's doing wrong
soo I have my best friend and I wanna go shopping and go to her house but my stupid mum won't let me the places i wanna go are not that far and i'm completely aware of the dangers of certain things. eventually i started lying to go with my friend but i eventually got caught cos she saw stuff i've never owned.
I find this really unfair because my friend who is pretty much the same age as me (im 11.5 she's 12) gets to go places with friends whenever she wants. very recently i've been wanting to go to her house but you know the drill, my mum goes into overprotective mode and says no angry she always thinks i'm following friends which is not true and i'm starting to purposely hang up and not answer mums calls i hate her. Alot of her excuses show how paranoid she is, shes gonna talk to me about going to my friends house tonight so im going to go to bed early.
im really stressed and i might start letting my friend into the house when i'm home alone and delete camera footage so mum doesn't see
she cant accept about the fact that i'm not a baby anymore and i have my own life, i bet shes just jealous that i have friends unlike her when she was my age
if you've read this far then thanks a ton. what should I say to her and how should I deal with it so I can get more freedom, i feel like getting advice from other mums might increase my chance of my mum listening
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arandom11yearold · 12/03/2019 16:41
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