This male friend is toxic right? I'm horrified.

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We had a lovely birthday for dds 10 the on Saturday...bowling followed by sleepover.
Dd had a ' boyfriend'. Nothing serious but just a good male friend. I let him come to bowling but he went home afterwards so she could a girly sleepover.
He ' dumped' her today as apparently she was pretending to suck his friend's cock. Dd was horrified and grossed put...she won't even kiss a boy.
She seems fine and undazed but I'm very concerned. I always felt that this boy was a bit intense...I just don't want dd to face ugly rumours at school. Should I approach them?
The other problem is that this boy is slap bang in the middle of dds friendship group.
I'm so glad she has decided to ignore him from now on but worried about the fall out.

Approach school even.xx

I would let school know actually- that's inappropriate sexual knowledge/ language from a ten year old and should flag a safeguarding issue.

Does he go to her school? I would speak to both his parents and the school and inform them that he is talking this way about girls and that it needs addressed. Some may think that’s overkill but I hate this shit and it needs nipped in the bud as soon as it starts.

I don’t think that’s overkill at all. If my ds (10) was talking like that about girls, I would want to know