My DD is 10. At school she is the perfect pupil she is head of house and a librarian and generally so polite and well behaved. Until the second she gets out the school gate then she changes her attitude is shocking she is full of anger and attitude. In one respect she hates being with us as we are horrible mean and everything is so boring......but on the other hand she is constantly under my feet At home as she will not play or sit in her room without an adult. She wakes up full of anger and goes to bed in a bad mood as I won't let her stay up till 10. She loves causing an argument and just adores confrontation with us. She has no hobby or passion and is just plain bored at home she just wants to eat shout and moan. She is so social and she does lots of after school activities but she cannot and will not entertain herself at home. She doesn't really like watching tv or DVD's as she gets too bored. She isn't into colouring craft or reading like he friends. She just seems so unhappy being part of our family. She is still full of bad attitude and downright rudeness when out with us but to everyone else she is perfect.. She just seems to hate being with her own family. She never really smiles anymore unless she is at school or with her friends. Her brother has aspergers and he can be really difficult but he isn't really hard at home -in fact the opposite he so enjoys playing on his own. She is just so hard to live with. I just don't know whatvto do to make her happier........
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