A boy in DD's class is a bit of a ladies man. He's already been on a 'date' with one of the girls in their class, and has now turned his attentions to my DD. It follows the usual pattern of him constantly ribbing her that she 'likes' him and doing silly love heart icons with his hands, to which my very unimpressed (and very cross about it) DD does the same gesture but then separates and scrunches up her hands and makes a face at him and says no, she doesn't like him and anyway she doesn't go out on dates because she's nine. So far, so normal, I guess, but today it escalated a bit and when she got asked out again and she said no, the boy got really cross and thumped DD and her friend on the back with a steel water bottle. They told on him, but didn't go into details with the teacher and he was put in time out for a little while. After school she was really furious about it and had a little cry and said how fed up she was with the constant attention. Normally she'd be fine figuring out this kind of school drama by herself, and I'm sure she can handle it, but part of me just thinks, FFS, why the hell should she put up with this kind of crap - already! - and I want to go to the teacher and ask her to have a word about this kind of behaviour. What do you reckon?
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ejbab · 04/09/2015 09:21
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