my 12 year old dd has got herself in a right mess. She had a very close friend, who was also part of a close group of friends that included my dd.
However, she fell in with another girl outside this group and, without going into to much detail, as a consequence she has become very peripheral to her old friends. This new 'friend' has now dropped her, and she now finds herself excluded from the old group and her old best friend, and basically feels very sad and alone.
I don't think there's any overt hostility - she's just no longer included in their w/e social activities, so finds she has little in common with them at school, and it's also caused some heart-break over a school outing (the group haven't asked my dd to be in their dorm at sailing camp).
She feels totally responsible, but has no idea what to do and nor do I. She's desperately unhappy, as am I, and I'm kicking myself for not intervening months ago when I saw that something had changed in her relationships.
DD has messed up her friendship and is very sad - help!
Tom5000 · 03/03/2015 11:34
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