I'm mentally and physically drained after two hours of stress and upset that started over hardly anything.
I know that she is extremely tired but she was unbelievable - rude, completely unreasonable, defensive - things I've seen before but not to this extent. I was calm up to the point she she got past me by pushing me then I lost it and flipped and started shouting at her. That bit ended with her screaming she hates me (a first) and I'm ashamed to say I called her a little cow (blush). Dad went to see her after she had been in her room a while and she was angry with him, doesn't like her sister (thinks she gets all the attention). She started shouting again when I reminded her of what I have done for her lately - supporting her through some friendship/bullying issues (school doing a good job to help).
She then jumped off the bed and came at me pushing me and trying to hit me. Next thing she is running downstairs so I legged it after her but she'd unlocked the door and was running down the road.
I had to chase her and drag her back to the house by her wrist and Dad carried her up to her room. We've left her to it now but I've been in a right state, feeling helpless and incapable. When it was all going on I thought what do you do, who can help you when its out of control like this?
We've had a good day, went to cinema with her two sisters then to my parents where just the two of us took the dog for a walk - all quite normal.
I'd be so grateful of any tips of how to handle it when it gets this extreme, she was in such a state. I've just been to see her and she wanted me to get into bed with her for a cuddle when I asked but she is half asleep so we didn't talk. I'm not sure how to handle it in the morning, I can't just ignore what happened and I'm feeling resentment against her because I've been hurt. Its all such a mess - help! :(
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chocolatekimmy · 22/01/2012 20:51
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