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9yo with no imaginative play?

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caracol · 13/01/2012 12:39

I am currently abroad for a year with my husband visiting his family. I was asked to look after his two nieces for the 4 weeks of the summer holidays (january), basicaly beacuse they are quite difficult. I am a special neeeds teacher with specialism in drama and art and I am struggling!!

I am nearly at the end of week one, the 5yo has lots of behavioural problems, wich are taxing but we are working through them, however the 9yo girl simply doesnt have any creativity or urge to play anything. I have tried many differnt types of art activitives and at the first hurdle she gives up. I have managed to get her to use stencils and that is the limit.

and playing games is the worst she has simply no imaginative play have tried, dress up, making dens, water play, puppets, board games, charades etc etc. She is not going through any moody pre-teen stage but genuinly cannot play. if i am not directing the activity she becomes bored and disinterested. however if I am guiding he imaginative play she stays engaged. she desnt not play by herself and just sits on the sofa if left to her own devices.

Need some help, ideas beacuse I am running out of them!

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kreecherlivesupstairs · 13/01/2012 12:44

Leave her to her own devices? My 10.8 DD has never played in the way you describe. She much prefers to read or chat to her friends.
She is happy to play in the park, or run around but she's never to my knowledge pretended to be anything she isn't ITMS.

TBE · 13/01/2012 12:47

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caracol · 13/01/2012 13:11

We are in an apartment building with no outdoor acess, the computer turns into a screaming match with the 5yo so I limited the time and made them take turns, even then it's a big of a tug of war. She lost her mobile two weeks ago...

Yeah I was unsure if it was pre-teen behaviour as my only real experince of those age were drama classe and taking brownies for many years, both very differnt areas with mre structure from the home setting.

Thanks for the advice!

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