ds is 4.5 and is in his second year at his preschool.
there are 3 teachers that look after 15 children.
one of the teachers seems to be quite keen to point out to me when ds has been naughty. when i say naughty i dont mean hurting or being nasty. she say things like "this boy doesn't like being told what to do." or "he likes to do things his way." which to me isn't particularly naughty. but the way she says it is as if he is a constant nuisance to her. she doesnt talk to me other than when she does say these things and she will actually leave what she is doing to come and tell me when i come to collect him even if one of the other teachers is opening the door for me. i have noticed also that if she is in the hall when i am putting ds' coat on and he is messing with me, which i am participating in i,e; we are playing. she will reprimand him and tell him to behave. which i think is unneccessary when i am there.
i am starting to wonder if she has a dislike for ds and if whe might be treating him unfairly while he is in her care.