hi,
I've been getting a bit worked up recently about my youngests nursery. It's a private nursery so usual fees for 3 full days a week but they also have started doing "extra clubs" during the day what you have to pay for.
Like one day is £35 for 8 sesions of a dance type one where they bring in another person at 10am, and starting another at £40 on another day, like a sports thing at 11am
Ive just about stretched to the one club because I don't want him to miss out but this other thing means that is another £75 every like 8 weeks in top of how much I pay now.
I've told the nursery how I feel and they say they take the kids that don't do it and have other stuff but I still think it's like "why aren't I outside with my friends?" type of thing.
I'm really upset to think of him thinking that tbh and they don't seem to understand that.
They do put pressure on they are always asking for payment even when I'm not sure about it, and it's almost like having to tell them I can't really afford it and I don't know how they can put me in that situation.
What do u think?