I'm looking for any insight or advice into how many hours would be beneficial for my 3 year old DD1 to attend preschool now that she is eligible for the free 30hrs per week, considering that I also have DD2 who is now 10mths old. DD1 has been attending preschool for 2 x 3hr sessions (on Tues and Fri morning) since she turned 2.5 years old. We started her at 2.5. as she is very bright, needed more stimulation and I had just had DD2 and needed some one-one time with the baby. DD1 found it hard to adjust at first as she was still very attached to me but now she loves preschool. We currently pay for the two sessions but as from April she will be eligible for up to 30hrs free. I am struggling with how many hours to enrol her- I am conflicted between wanting to spend time with her whilst she is young-though we don't do as much painting, crafts, baking, trips to the park etc. as we used to because I now have to split my attention between DD1 and DD2. I am also aware that DD2 doesn't get half the one-one attention that DD1 had at that age and so I feel conflicted about what is best for both of them.
Should I send DD1 in for more/longer sessions (5 mornings or 3-4 full days) so that DD2 has more time with me whilst she is so young (and developing language etc.) and accept that DD1 already had lots of quality time with me and now it's DD2's turn.
Or should DD1 go for less sessions whilst I try to do more with the two of them together at home and accept that DD2 will have more one-one attention when she is 2.5 and DD1 goes to school full-time. I want to do right by both of them. Any thoughts would be much appreciated from mums or professionals working in childcare settings. Thank you in advance.