MK is a very happy and extremely intelligent 2.8 year old. She is overly attached to me and gets scared with loud noises etc. e.g swimming pools, fun city, drills etc. I knew this would be an problem when she started preschool, the first 3 weeks were very hard, she cried alot and was very upset every day when I dropped her off. Then on the 4th week she was great, even told me she did not want to go home at the end of the day. This went on for one month, then a new boy started in her class and he scared MK with his crying and screaming, and to be honest he was very loud he even bothered me?? This was 2 weeks before the xmas holidays, during the two weeks I was called to pick her up early because she was so upset and on a few occasions cried so hard she threw up. The holidays were great she was relaxed, happy and in general her normal self. Now I am getting her ready to go back to school and have started talking about it to get her prepared and today she threw up again. I have no idea if she is so upset that it is a reaction or if she is so intelligent that she knows it will get her out of school?? Please can anyone give me some advise, I don't want to continue if it is really emotionally upsetting her and going to cause more damage or if I should continue and hope it will get better. Thanks in advance
Chao