Apologies if these are really stupid questions but I am a bit confused about what is the norm.
I am in Wales and work full time - my son is 18 months old and in a private nursery near to my work 4 days a week (He is with my mum the other day), this works well for us as I can pick him up and drop him off really easily. I love the nursery and he is well settled.
I think here in Wales we are entitled to the 15 hours thing (free nursery whatsit?) but obviously that means the rest of the hours he is in Nursery would need to be funded by me (i.e take him out of the nursery he is in and put him into a school nursery full time) or he would need to go down to half days in the private nursery and DH and I would have to collect him half-way through the day, not to mention the wrao around care needed out of school term-time.
So... my instinct is to keep him in the private nursery until he has to go to school. Is this what people who work do? I am quite happy to do this but have wondered about him then making the transition to school at 5 where he won't know anyone at all and may feel left out. Chances are we may well move before then anyway so he will still be the 'new boy'.
Also will he lose out educationally by staying in a private nursery while other kids go to a school-attached one?
scuse me if this all sounds really thick.