I am aware i'm probably being very much a PFB type mum here but.....
DD's (3.1years) best friend is not the best influence on her and while i've got some strategies up my sleeve, i'm not sure about the best option going forward
DD and BF were together in childcare and it's not a new relationship but the problem seems to have arisen since the move to pre-school. Same site, same staff.
BF is not toilet trained and just goes in her pull ups. we've just had two weeks of retraining DD even though she'd been dry for the best part of 12 months prior to that and is usually dry at night.
DD was getting agressive and impolite, always with the rationale "but BF does..." and we've had lots of conversations along the lines of just because BF does/says this doesn't mean you can...
we're trying really hard not to be nasty about BF as she's only a little girl herself and DD has to learn personal responsibility but as time goes on we're getting more concerned that DD is increasingly isolated from other friendships (at the moment she has other friends, BF doesn't have any other friends) but i can't help noticing the lack of invites DD has to parties and play dates or the sudden shyness when i drop her off (the other kids are all nice to her and really sweet, making me think DD is still liked)
has anyone else any experiences similar to this and ideas for getting past it to a more balanced friendship and friendship circle?