I am only asking as the way out nursery works it seemed like it depends on who is on the Friends Committee (which I've also joined to meet other mums).
DD1 is 4 years old. She started when she was 2.5 and is now one of the big girls and a very confident child. Yet every time a selected few kids get the option to go into town and go to either the local Pet Shop, Firestation, hospital, etc. DD is never the one selected to go. The only time she was selected was last week when I was running late. Came in with her and mentioned that DD's beat friend is dressed up really lovely on her say to school which is next to nursery. They then said "oh they are having a little assembly and the some kids are going next door to watch them" I then just said Oh. Was about to kiss dd bye when they turned and said to her "do you want to come with and watch R and M perform in their play to which she said yes. All I thought after was would they yet again left her out again.
End of last week the Nativity Letter came and she is a star, last year a snowman. Snowman and stars and Trees are for the rest of the kids who doesn't have an individual role and they are grouped together as per their nursery group. Last year her Giraffe group were snowman and this year they are stars. I don't see anything wrong but would just like to know how they decide who gets what role. DD's best friends brother is not yet 3 and started nursery after half term. He goes from 9-11 one day a week only and he got to be the Angel Gabrielle. DD's other friend is Mary on the one day and then Angel on the next day (2 plays). So how can one child get 2 roles and the others none.
Even though I am someone that speaks my mind I would never asks and just personally feel they favour some kids. Just because I am now a single mum doesn't mean my kid need to be treated differently. I am probably the only single parent as my husband left over the summer holidays leaving me with her and our then 3 month old dd
Tell me if I'm being silly. I know they will get their chance in big school and I am normally not very fussed but it's only cos she mentioned it yesterday.