My 3 and a half yrs old daughter's nursery has arranged for an inclusion officer to 'observe' her. I am concerned because the nursery manager claims on the one hand that there is 'nothing to worry about' whilst on the other hand this is clearly not a routine observation; they have concerns about her potty training progress and her social skills. There were never any concerns about her development from health visitors or her previous nursery (we moved some months ago to a smaller town). I don't know what to make of this. Is there anyone else with a similar experience (ie having a child whom you thought had a typical development and then asked to be seen by an inclusion officer)?