Hi all,
im just hoping someone can give me a bit of reassurance and advice. I had my first baby 5 years ago (6 in one week!) and we have always been cautious about another baby after DS was born 30+2 weeks. After many years of getting over the traumatic birth and NICU stay (spontaneous labour, no waters breaking just contractions) I am currently 6 weeks pregnant again.
I went to see the midwife today and she said I would be referred to the preterm prevention clinic but something that set alarm bells ringing was that she said they might only see me from 16-24 weeks? She said I was in good health and if my cervix looked ok they might refer me back to midwife care at 24 weeks once baby reaches viability?! I really thought the whole point would be to keep a baby in for as long as possible, not just until it’s 24 weeks! I honestly don’t think I have it in me to do another long NICU stay . I’ve stalked enough mumsnet forums to know many ladies have had extra scans, cervical lengthening etc but she seemed to think I wouldn’t be offered this as I didn’t have IUGR. Honestly I feel SO worried!
Is this information correct? It really doesn’t feel like it. I honestly thought I’d done enough research to know you’d be more looked after?
Does anyone have any tips on how to advocate for the extra scans, cervical lengthening, progesterone, etc etc? I’d be happy to take anything given to me, as long as it felt like I was doing something!
any help greatly appreciated and thank you for reading x