So my MIL keeps telling my partner who the babies need to go and see. They're 3 weeks old and still tiny as they were born at 36 weeks. She doesn't talk to her mum as they don't get on but she keeps banging on about my partner taking them up there. He also has said he doesn't really want anything to do with her as she's not a nice person (I've also never met her as he's kept me away) She has now what I feel like is guilt tripped him into saying his nan is dying. I've said we'll take them in a few weeks when they're more settled and bigger. Its just constant control over who his parents want them to meet and when. It's really affecting our relationship because he's listening to them and not me as their mother. I feel like he's taking all control over what I want away from me and giving it to them. Not what I need at the moment when I'm trying navigate being a ftm.