I really need some help, I’ve recently found out I’m pregnant (only 4 weeks or so) and in the same week I’ve just been sacked from my job. For no reason of my own to add, I cant accept the changes they’re making to my working pattern for childcare reasons. So I’ll be out of work in 3 months time. Which is stressful enough as it is. I just don’t have the capacity for this right now.
I took the morning after pill less than 24hrs after the unprotected sex, but took a test last week to find it’s positive. My husband and I are in complete shock. We talked about a third, but the timing is terrible which is why we decided to take the morning after pill. Since finding out I’ve been completely withdrawn, I can barely leave the house. It’s like I have this big secret.
As heartbreaking as it is, my gut feel is to end things asap. My job is really uncertain, and I certainly won’t get a job if I waddle into a job interview with a bump (I hate to say that in 2026, but it’s true). Plus I don’t know how I can find a job that will accommodate the flexibility I need for 3 kids. My husband earns a good salary, but we can’t afford for me to stay at home. I also want to be able to go on nice holidays, renovate our house and protect my other two children (5 and 2.5) lives and hobbies.
Im totally confused and heartbroken, its the worst start to the year we could’ve imagined.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.