I've got myself into a bit of a pickle. My relationship was breaking down but I found out I'm pregnant just as this was becoming a reality . We are still together since telling him I'm pregnant but he doesn't want it and I can't decide if I do either. I understand his reasons for not its mainly the living situation and financials. We don't live together and we don't live close and not close to his family . He doesn't want to move in with me because of the commute he would then have to work and I don't want to move away because I have my little boy who goes to school here/his grandparents and good relationship with father. We did want babies but we wanted to settle down and purchase a house first . His reaction and how he treated me has completely made me realise I don't think the relationship is even saveable . I feel at a loss, I know I'll regret it if I choose termination as due to my age I wouldn't do this again . But the thought of doing this alone and the reality of how hard it is scares me too much as I've done it before. Just
Wondering if anyone has been in a similar situation ? I feel I won't find happiness having 2 kids with no free time , or I could make the choice for termination, close that book on the relationship and move on with my life .