So I have just found out I am pregnant. We already have 6 children. 3 older ones aged 15 - 10 and 3 little ones aged 2 and 10 months (twins) .. we always said after the twins that is it definitely no more. We were always careful so this is a shock. I have arranged a medical abortion, I have to pick the tablets up in 4 days time. But I don't know if I'm doing the right thing. My partner says it's completely my decision but I know he would like to continue with it. Our house is bursting at the seams as it is, we are only in a 3 bed and no chance of moving anytime soon it's just completely unaffordable for us. Yes we are on council lists but they've said we need a 5 bed at the least and they only have four 5 beds which are all occupied so we are looking at a 10 year wait 🙄 going private again is out of the question for such a large house we just can't afford the fees and buying is just a pipe dream. As it stands we have the toddler and the twins in our bedroom, that's our bed, a toddler bed and a cot. The thought of adding a moses basket then a second cot to that just seems like madness. We have 1 boy who has a room and then the 2 older girls who share. We have a 7 seater car that already doesn't fit the whole family in for travelling for holidays so we have to have a smaller second car aswell. I also don't think it would be fair on the ones we already have to bring another baby in... but then I don't know I look at the tiny ones and just think ... how can I go ahead with an abortion.. but maybe I'm being selfish. I need advice and opinions from people who aren't closely involved...hense why I'm here. I thought I'd be definite on the abortion but I aren't. And I'm scared I'm going to make the complete wrong decision either way and regret it 😟