looking for some advice please! I’m 38 & have 3 beautiful kids, ages 18,9 & 4 (big age gaps) so I met my current partner nearly 6 years ago & I made it clear I didn’t want anymore kids I already had a boy & a girl.
anyway after 2 years, we ended up having our little boy who is now 4! And I wouldn’t change him for
the world! That was while I decided to take a break from the injection and then we both decided to try for a baby it took a year to conceive.
now 4 years later I have just very very unexpectedly found out I’m pregnant whilst on the pill injection! In between this one and my last I had missed it by literally 3 weeks and fell pregnant!! So when I found out I was already 8 weeks!
I had to go for a scan to check how far as I don’t have periods to go off with me being on the injection.
so to cut a long story short I really don’t want to keep the baby I want to have an abortion which I never thought I’d say but I also never in a million years thought I would fall pregnant that fast my own stupid fault missing the injection by 3 weeks I presumed as it took a year last time 3 weeks wasn’t a big deal! How wrong I was.
so my partner has already told his parents as he is happy about the situation and couldn’t keep his mouth shut! I also told my parents as I felt I should with already being 8 weeks. I have told my partner I am so unsure but definitely swaying more to an abortion as non of it seems right to have another baby! I’m nearly 39, have a good career with my own business which I do from home, already have 3 children and we don’t have the extra space either for another child.
now he and his mum are even saying u can’t get rid of the baby no way etc! Then he said if u do that’s the end of us! It’s my child and u wanna murder it!!
making me feel terrible but also makes me think well it’s my choice! His mum said it’s his choice too but he 100% won’t agree with me having an abortion!
I feel so sad & trapped as it’s supposed to be a happy occasion like the others but this time I feel so different I just want an abortion but it’s going to cause so much trouble and if I don’t I feel unhappy help!!