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HELP NEEDED

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BeIcySeal · 17/12/2024 10:09

I currently have a toddler myself from a previous relationship and my partner has 2 again from a previous relationship. I am currently 12 weeks pregnant and have an abortion booked in however I am not sure if I want to go ahead. I am
so unsure to the point I broke down in the hospital on a previous date I was meant to get the procedure and they told me they could not continue as it would be illegal. I know what’s best for our situation as we are not living together and have other children to think about I don't want to take anything away from them but I truly feel like I’m not sure if I can go ahead. My emotions have been all over the place. Financially I am worried but I don't know if I can do it. I'm also in my early 20s which can make a difference. We've also been together for a year and half. Open to all opinions and questions.

I understand no one's going to make a decision for me just looking for advice or similar situations I can relate to as a lot of abortion advice involves being asked are you ready to be a mum and I'm already a mum.

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Saskia2023 · 17/12/2024 22:05

i think its often harder when you are already a mum to make the decision. i would recommend accessing some counselling as often there is not a right or wrong decision but it can help you work out which option is the least worse. your provider should be able to put you in touch with a counsellor or there are other providers like ARCH or Stillwaters. it will help get your thoughts straight. please listen to your instinct if your heart wants to go ahead- financially you can make things work dont underestimate the love you can give x

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