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Pregnant after fling with colleague

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stupidgirl9 · 28/11/2024 20:23

Both single.

Would never get involved with anyone from work, but he seemed nice and we clicked so went out a few times.

Slept together once 🤦‍♀️

I just didn't feel it going anywhere, he's nice but wasn't feeling any more than that so ended it politely. I think you usually know after a few dates.

Anyway after I've ended it I now find myself pregnant. Absolute stupidity. I took the morning after pill, didn't use any protection it's not like me. Obviously it hasn't worked.

I've got a child from a previous relationship. I don't want any more children right now, especially not with someone I'm not in a relationship with.

I've got to see him at work tomorrow. I haven't told any one expect for one close friend. I'm not going to tell him.

I never thought I'd need to have an abortion. I can't financially afford another child on my own. I feel so embarrassed and stupid.

I know it's my fault.

I just need to get it out somewhere.

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CocoJaguar · 29/11/2024 13:37

Hi, you’re not alone- I’m also pregnant by my colleague. I have a surgical termination booked for the 10th and feel absolutely rubbish. I haven’t told my colleague and so far haven’t seen him at work as he’s on annual leave.
It feels like the loneliest place in the world

stupidgirl9 · 29/11/2024 19:44

I'm so sorry you are in the same situation. But I'm also glad someone who understands has replied.

I had to see mine at work today, he totally ignored me and walked away from a group setting when I spoke, no one at work knew about us but him doing this just made it completely obvious that there was an issue.

I'm just screaming inside.

To make things worse I've been trying to get in contact with my local nhs abortion provider which is nupas, I've contacted others but they don't have the "nhs contract" for my area. I can't get through to nupas on the phone and I've requested a call back several times and no one has got back to me so I feel like I'm going to be pregnant forever and I just want this over.

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