i want him to suffer

[louise2019x]

hey all i know i sound so horrible but i had an abortion in 2022 because the guy at the time didn’t want to be a father and i was so scared of doing it alone. He told me if i had the abortion we could stay together and everything would be ok and we could build a life. Anyone who’s been in this situation will know how overwhelming and scary it is and i had no one to talk to as i’m from ireland and people still are wierd about it here. So i had the abortion and he ghosted me after it and never spoke to me again. I ended up in hospital for 3 weeks due to ectopic pregnancy scare and he said it was all too much for him and it’s affected him so bad that he has to walk away. Now 2 years on and years of therapy i just want him to suffer 1% of what i did do you think someone like suing for emotional distress would work not even for money just to see him suffer

I'm so sorry for all the pain you've been through, Louise. Unfortunately it's sadly common for a man to insist on his partner having an abortion, saying he'll leave if she won't, and then leaving anyway. It's one of the most horrible betrayals a person can suffer. I'm glad you're talking with a therapist so that you can work through these complicated feelings. However, I don't think you'd have a legal case, and I don't think this man deserves any more of your time and energy. They say the best revenge is living a good life so I would focus on setting goals that improve yourself or bring you peace and happiness. And continue the therapy so that you have help throughout the process. I can't imagine three weeks in hospital as you have been through, I'd be hurt and angry too. I hope you can move forward and find someone who loves you the way you deserve to be loved.

Hi hun this too happend to me . He made me get an abortion by saying he wouldn't be there for the child or financially support. I had to redo my abortion 3 times and have tissue removed before all the tissue left me. It was an awful 6 weeks. I hate him and the rage I feel I get it hun I want him to suffer too . I txt him told him about abortion he blocked me removed me from social media and then posted on social media about football. That same night I was in maternity hospital having tissue removed from me in floods of tears only to be told it didn't work and I had to re take abortion pills and do it a 3rd time ! They are heartless evil humans I think ! I feel your rage I feel your pain. You wouldn't leave a sick dog on the street . It hurts and cuts deep. I've been doing a lot of work to help me get thorough the rage I don't know how I will get through it but we have to let it go s holding onto emotions will make us sick later in life. We have to try find a way to move on . I wish I could make it better for both of us . Sending you a big hug hun xxx