I've never posted before but really in need of some advice and from the posts I've read it's a great place to come.
I'm about to turn 41 with an 8month old, 9yr old and 8yr stepson. We tried for 2.5yrs for our latest, I suffered a miscarriage after a year of trying which I found devastating but after another year and a half of trying a healthy perfect girl which I'm thankful for.
The thing is, I've just found out I'm 17weeks pregnant. Due to still breastfeeding I had no periods or symptoms so it's come as a complete shock. My partner is sure he doesn't want another and I hear and agree with most of what he says. We don't have the room, money, help available and it would change all of our lives.
I just need advice on what to do. I feel like I can't make my mind up, ive known a day and i need to decide today. We've found out so late and I'm so wracked with guilt but if I were early i would of decided to end the pregnancy. If i continued with the pregnancy I'd have 2 under 1years, a 10yr old and 8yr old. Plus I'd still need to return to work as we can't afford to survive on one wage.
There's just so many things to think about and literally no time to think. Help.