Hi
I am looking for some advice from anyone that has been through similar experience, I have a positive pregnancy test (unplanned) my partner and I are 30 - have been together 15years live together etc. since the news I have been looking up medical abortion I have had a consultation with MSI but broke down crying on the phone. I am now booked in for their counselling service, my boyfriend is currently away - I haven’t told him the news as wouldn’t be face to face, my thoughts are to go ahead with the termination and don’t tell my bf about this that way he will be saved from the grief and I fear he will judge me for wanting the termination, I feel his point of view would be to continue the pregnancy. My reasons are that I don’t feel ready, we have lots of travel plans this year and into next which I would have to miss out on, I am also currently studying and have around 6 more exams to pass before being fully qualified- at which point my salary increases by around £10k. I just think I’m 1 years time we would be in such a better position, but I am aware that being 30 already I may not be afforded the luxury. Do you think I should discuss or go ahead with my decision and keep him out of it. Now that I have had my consultation I am eligible for the post pills so I would take the first one weds and then the second step of Thursday as my bf is away and hopefully through the worst by Friday. I do wonder how easy that would be after the fact as I seem to be getting emotional out of nowhere but I can’t see another way through this.