Hi,
I just signed up just to have somewhere to put my feelings down and be heard. I've just found out I'm pregnant. I already have a blended family so my kids and my stepkids and we've had a daughter together whose 10 months old. We spoke about my partner getting the snip but he said he didn't like the idea because of the pain of it. And so we've been having less than regular sex and using the pull out method. There was 1 time though last month where he didn't do it properly. Anyway he doesn't want the baby and is being very cold towards me. I just feel so angry that he didn't want the snip because it would hurt but has absolutely no problem with me going through pain now physically and emotionally to terminate this pregnancy. I would've been happy to continue the pregnancy if I had his support but I just can't see how I can bring a child into the world that isn't wanted by him. Either way I see it now our relationship will be damaged. I don't even know what I'm asking here, I know no one can make the decision for me I'm just feeling so angry right now and upset.