Just wondering if anyone can offer any words of advice or comfort, I can’t discuss with anyone in real life at the moment. Ive just found out I’m pregnant (test saying 1-2 weeks) and I feel totally paralysed in knowing what to do. Background is I’m 31, no kids though I had 2 terminations in my twenties, neither of which I’ve ever regretted. I have only been with my partner for a few months (though we live together so actually feels like longer) - he is very keen for us to have this baby. I’ve also told my mum and she thinks I should 100% continue. I know I’m stupid for getting pregnant (again) when I’m not sure it’s something I want, but here we are and now I feel totally overwhelmed and with a feeling of dread. My boyfriend is lovely but I don’t know if our relationship is even going to last this pregnancy, how can I when we’ve only been together for such a short space of time and half of it’s been totally honeymoon period. I feel like I’m overanalysing him at the moment trying to work out if I see us lasting, and then trying to separate my feelings for him from how I feel about being pregnant/being a mother in general. My mum keeps saying “there are no guarantees in life” which is true but this just feels like such a massive thing to commit to when I’m feeling so unsure. I felt trapped in a previous relationship and when I left him I had such a sense of freedom and like I had done the right thing for myself and I worry that by continuing this pregnancy I’m tying myself to another man. The only thing bringing me comfort is that I own my flat & have independence in that way, I guess the idea of relinquishing any freedom/independence is the thing that is getting to me the most as I feel it’s so hard won