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Abortion

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ss45 · 15/02/2024 22:01

Hi looking for some advice please as I feel totally torn.
Currently 8wp and booked in for medical TOP this week, I currently have one child and this would be my second to BD however not together. The relationship has been toxic and now my mental
health is not great. I feel very torn about the abortion and the guilt I will feel after. I also have a tremendous amount of guilt for not giving my child a sibling however I just don’t feel like my mental health is in the best place. I feel like either way whatever choice I make I am going to suffer and I’m exhausted mentally about this decision. Has anyone else been in this situation or similar? Feel so lost.

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heartbroken22 · 16/02/2024 23:02

Can you speak to a doctor about how you're feeling. They can give you medicjne to help with mental health. Your mental health can get better but as a person who had an abortion without support I wish I kept my baby. The guilt is real. Even if you chose to have one make sure you take the theraphy they offer before u do it.

Don't mix up your feelings about your ex with having this baby. What does your heart tell you?

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