I am with my boyfriend now over a year and we moved in together about 6 months ago. Currently we are moving to a new place just over the weekend we moved into a bigger apartment. There was so many things going on in my life all at once. We are planning a wedding, we're moving life is just beginning for us two together and we are ao excited.
But this new year when my period was late 5 days I was abroad I thought all the stress and flying from travelling made my period late which it has happened few times. This time no... I tested positive on the pregnancy test we couldn't believe it, it was a shock because I was told before I have PCOS and I felt all this time that getting pregnant would be tough, I guess it wasnt...
I am writing this post to share my story maybe someone can relate someone can find thus helpful or slightly comforting for their experience with abortion too.
I wouldn't say my story is very positive but also not super negative. Its real and honest. I had my phone consultation with the clinic with their doctor I firstly messed up my period dates which made me 10 weeks and the doctor wouldn't listen to me after I said I made a mistake she booked me for a scan to check the weeks which confirmed I was 6 weeks that exact day. On Saturday I got my medication physically in the clinic the experience was weird the woman was rushing made me feel uncomfortable its loke she wanted to get rid of me. Anyway I took my first pill at home at 6pm I felt very weak and faint I couldn't do anything but sit I felt so so nauseous but i felt thus way everyday from pregnancy but this pill made it worse then over 40 hours later I took 2 pills into the mouth to dissolve in my cheeks at 10am already at 11 I was cramping nothing bad, soon after I was bleeding and had diarrhoea on top of vomiting same time my friend was there to help. I was taking ponstan, paracetamol, motilium and imodium for nausea and diarrhoea because I had it all same time. It wasn't pretty at all I didnt feel well but still was manageable. I went to the toilet again as I felt bad cramping needing to vomit and have diarrhoea this one was the worst thus was 2 hours after the pill. The cramps were really bad I was sweating so much I was hot and in pain soon after I passed the pregnancy I a bug blob of blood clots came out I didn't look but I felt it, you kind of just know that that's it. I passed it got up and showered felt huge relief no pain almost. No more diarrhoea or vomiting. Then after for few hours I had cramps similar to period and passed 2 very large blood clots which I had to dispose of as they didn't absorb on the pad wasn't possible. Then I had some light bleeding nothing crazy and now I am recovering today very little blood and no pain I feel much better almost like new.
I'm sorry if this us too much detail but this is my story this is what I experienced and I hope it helps some of you to see what it looks like and how it feels. I was really scared I was nervous but once I experienced it I was okay I managed I pulled through its still all very new but I hope I will be okay and I wish all you ladies here the same I hope your experience isn't too bad or too painful but if it is just take it as it is and pull through you got this.