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Surgical abortion at 15 weeks support needed

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Yolo2023 · 05/10/2023 14:45

Im 13 weeks today and they can't get me in for another 2 weeks for the termination. Im receiving alot of pressure from family members to not go through with it. Tellung me its a baby now how could you do it, you will be fine e your strong. I don't want to be with the father and already have a 1 year old baby. My mental health just won't cope I know it won't having 2 babies under 2 on my own. Im so angry at my self I've left it this long and didn't go sooner. I listened to everyone else and their opinions instead of going sooner, but I can already feel my mental health plummeting. I think why I've posted this is im hoping for wise words of wisdom from people who have been through similar etc.

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SnowySpa · 09/10/2023 03:01

Hello Yolo, I'm so sorry that you're under so much pressure with this serious decision to make. How old are you? Do you live with your baby's father? Are you in the process of leaving him? Does your family give you any help with your current child? Are they willing to help with the one that is on the way? What about the father's family, are they involved? I'm sorry if everyone is telling you to have the baby but not offering to help. You might want to consider telling them what you would need to be able to raise another child, to see what they say. You would also be entitled to financial help from the father in most countries. I'm sorry to ask so many questions, I'm trying to get a feel for your situation. How do you feel about a second trimester abortion? What about adoption? These are all important things to consider, so you know all your options. Hope to hear from you again and that you will be able to make a choice you feel at peace with.

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