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Unwanted pregnancy and now angry at my husband

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Danii12 · 26/09/2023 14:43

Just wanted to put it out there, yesterday found out I'm pregnant..so obviously mixed feelings and all, but knew straight away can't keep the baby due to health condition. So discussed all with husband - which abortion opinion would be better and all seemed sorted.
But today new feelings are surfacing, anger towards husband. I can't believe this happened to me, and I feel like he's been careless putting me into this position..I understand this sounds stupid, I was obviously there during sex, but just have this feeling like he's no good for me.
I'm just wondering if anyone experienced anything similar?
I'm also feeling like I might not want to have sex with him for a very long time.

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Saskia2023 · 26/09/2023 15:20

Completely- felt so angry and resentful of mine especially as I had wanted him to take a long term solution years ago but he didnt! afterwards i felt quite resentful that he just could forget about it all too whereas i was a state. think its one of those difficult processes that puts a bit of a strain on things for a while and also makes you realise as women how we end up having to deal with the consequences x

Danii12 · 26/09/2023 16:07

Yes, we also had a discussion years ago, he said he doesn't want to have any more kids, but here we are..and now he's just being silent, not saying much at all. I was hoping he would be acting up on his plan to get it done.

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Isit7yet · 26/09/2023 22:16

I feel the same, unplanned pregnancy- had the first tablet for the medical abortion today. The whole process has been mentally overwhelming. We knew we were finished having babies - I asked repeatedly for my husband to get the snip. Now I'm going through the hardest time of my life. I can't believe how full of anger I am

Danii12 · 26/09/2023 22:26

Yes, exactly..I'd love to see him go and get the abortion. Atm I'm feeling like I'm never going to have sex with him ever again.

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