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Unplanned pregnancy, husband wants abortion

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sad55 · 31/07/2023 02:08

I am in an extremely hard place. My husband and I just found out we are 4 weeks pregnant (just missed my period, tested positive). He was very angry. I track my period on an app and it said I was out of my ovulation window, I thought it was safe. I was completely wrong and I feel so stupid. My husband is blaming me. We have 1 toddler and were not planning another until we were fully ready. My husband feels if I have this baby, I’m not taking his wants and feelings into consideration and being selfish. If I do have this baby, that will be the end of our marriage. If I have an abortion, I’m worried I will forever regret it. Deep down, I don’t want to have this baby that is unwanted and a resentful husband. If I ended up naturally miscarrying I would be relieved. I know it’s very early, only 4 weeks, is it awful of me to go through with aborting at this point? I feel so confused.

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Name97368 · 04/08/2023 17:25

Hi sad55. I am in a similar situation. What did you choose in the end?

Sad555 · 04/08/2023 23:48

I took the abortion pill last night under so much pressure, and I completely regret it! Don’t make the same mistake :( I’m trying to find a way to get progesterone shots to reverse it

Worriedpregnancy · 21/08/2023 20:37

Ah I’m sorry to hear this. I hope you are okay. It’s such a tough decision. Same situation here. Husband and I want different things. Have reached a stalemate who knows what will happen. I hope things worked out okay for you ♥️

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