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Unplanned and so shocked

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JMichelle · 16/07/2023 22:26

So recently found out I'm pregnant after 'seeing' someone for roughly 2 months. It came as a massive shock.

Cue last week when I saw him and told him I was pregnant, he took the news as best as he could, stated he wasn't ready to be a dad again and we hardly know each other so his decision was for me to have a termination. Its his opinion I respect that.

I've had a termination before after my oldest was born 14+ years ago. I don't ever regret that decision as at the time I was only 22 and it was what I felt best for me.

But this time I keep having doubts about having a termination and will I regret it. Part of me wants to respect his decision and go through with it,, but the other part of me is telling me I can do this pregnancy on my own as I've done it twice before

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Saskia2023 · 25/07/2023 22:38

sorry no one has replied to you yet. please ignore the bloke's feelings if that's not what you want. . he will not have to live with the decision and will just move in with life. do what you feel is best for you be that terminate or have it on your own- only you will know what is best for you and your context but i know i made a decision based on my parent's views and struggled after as lost sight of what i wanted. wishing you all the best with making the decision x

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