My fiancé and I have been together 7 years, we love each other very much and have from the beginning been on the same page with starting a a family. She is 35 I'm 37
We talked agreed we were ready, we did start trying, no pressure just going with the flow. She was excited, had bought a few things, has pregnancy test ready etc. But then she would say we need more savings, or need to finish the diy in the house, putting it off multiple times, now we have more savings and the house is complete.
She now has said she doesn't see herself being a Mum and doesn't think she ever will. It turns out that she was ok to start trying as she knew it was what I wanted. Now I see she doesn't want a family and she is very clear on this, there is no lets see how I feel in a year, it is just a no from her now. We have spoken and there is no reason other than that she wants to focus on her career and just doesn't feel it anymore.
I can't blame her for how she feels as it's not anyone's fault. I am just left not knowing the best thing to do. I still want a family and experience all that it offers, I cant see that I can compromise on this. I love her so much, but I do know I will resent and regret not taking an opportunity to have my own family.
If anyone has any views, opinions on this situation I would love to here them as I am so unsure what to do for the best. Thanks