Hey
I feel sick writing this but I just found out I'm pregnant, it was unplanned and has come as a shock. I'm only around 5 weeks pregnant and 32. This would be my second child.
I am really struggling to come to a decision with what's best to do in regards to keeping the baby or terminating the pregnancy.
I have spoken with my partner and he thinks the most sensible thing would be to terminate. We are in a difficult situation as we don't currently live with each other and I struggle with my mental health. We both didn't want anymore children as I have 1 from previous relationship and he has 3 from a previous relationship. My issue is I do not know if I can cope or deal mentally with an abortion. I have always said I could never have an abortion unless it was for medical reasons. It just doesn't sit right with me.
I just wondered if anyone else has ever been in a similar situation and has any advice for me please?
Thank you