Hi, I’ve recently found out I was pregnant showing 2-3wks on clear blue. I’m 32 I have a 12yr old who is now in high school and my career has just took off! I’m in a good place with my career than I’ve ever been in my life. I’ve been with my partner 18months and he’s desperate for a child. He has a criminal background of violence and served 9yrs in jail and he has been out 2yrs and not done or not wanted to do any criminal activity. I feel he’s changed from that point. He was young and regretted it.
I still feel he’s immature and not ready - he lives at home with his dad but stays with me frequently he has a job but not good with money, he is asking to keep the baby he’s refusing to listen to me talk about the reality of having a child he’s just pushing to keep but I can’t help feel this isn’t the right time. I’m absolutely torn what to do. He would make an amazing dad but our relationship hasn’t been the best at times. My head is frazzled and I don’t know what to do 😔