Name change for this.
I have been having a casual relationship with someone. I think I like him a lot more than he likes me. I am a single mum and already have 2 children. My ex husband up and left me one day and I found single mum life really hard.
I am on the pill but somehow it hasn't worked and I am pregnant.
The guy: single. Casually sleeping with other people also I think. Has said before that he does want kids some day.
My firsts thought is just to abort and not tell anyone. I am worried about emotionally coping with this. Has anyone done this? How did you cope? Did you tell the guy?
If I tell the guy, I am worried he may want me to keep it. If he were to stop sleeping around, move in and have a family unit with me sort of thing I would love to have his baby. But I have my 2 children to consider. Also I'm terrified he will cheat on me and/or leave like my ex husband did. It al depends on his reaction I guess.