Looking for advice and not judgement please ladies, I have recently found out I am pregnant with my 3rd child and I am seriously undecided on wether I want to go ahead with this pregnancy and have a third child or not. My daughter is 9 in august and very independent and so helpful with her younger brother, she does need a lot of emotional support and she has been referred for an adhd/asd assessment. My son is 2 in September and can be hard work (as most 2 year olds are)🤣 we are relatively luckily when it comes to sleep with him as I was firm from the beginning and would always put him down drowsy but awake so he goes straight to bed same time and falls asleep by himself every night, he is an early riser however and can be awake anything from 4:30 to 6 🤦🏼♀️. My partner also has two children from a previous relationship that come and stay with us every other weekend, they are great kids and very easy (aged 7 and 10) so again independent as such. My partner is adamant he doesn’t want anymore and doesn’t want to continue with the pregnancy as we have 4 between us, 2 of each and he doesn’t want anymore and is happy with what he’s got as he says. We are currently in a small 2 bed house so it’s a bit of a squeeze when my bonus 2 come but we are looking to move within the next year or so. My partner earns good money so we are financially stable enough. I am just seriously scared and unsure of wether I want another one or not! I am happy that I have 1 of each and love giving my son a lot of time and attention, my partner doesn’t want anymore and I’m scared it would impact my son who will only be 2 1/2 when this baby comes, will I cope with school runs? Cooking? Entertaining a baby and toddler? Just looking for experiences and advice and sorry my post is so long winded
thank you in advance x