Telephone appointment with BPAS next week support needed

[Wilz99]

I have my consultation with BPAS next Thursday and the wait is actually killing me. I'm about 5 weeks

What do they ask and how does it work?
I'm 1000% sure for many reason I want to terminate just knowing I'm pregnant is driving me into depression I already have 3 children and trying to deal with all this while trying to be a mom Is hardest thing I've ever had to get through I just want it over with.

What was everyone experience of the phone consultation and were you able to have pile by post?

Nobody knows about this other then my partner I just need someone to talk to and put my mind at ease and completely paralyzed with anxiety right now.

I was in this situation last summer. I only had to wait 4 days for my phone call though and that was bad enough. I remember having no idea how I would survive the wait. I kept as busy as possible and did some nice things for myself and soon enough the call came.

The nurse I spoke to was lovely, she asked a lot of personal details - who I lived with, previous pregnancy and birth details, medical information. Then asked why I wanted a termination and if I was sure of my decision. Was on the phone about 30 minutes and the pills came the next day.

you will be ok

@scaredandanxious01 Thankyou so much for you response!! All I've done for a solid week is ready through all these threads been some what a comfort as Im keeping it to myself other than my other half ofcourse. I feel almost like I'm living outside of myself abit ATM if that makes sense like only way I can get through the days for my children is if I just pretend.
Such an awful experience and I haven't even got to the termination yet I'm just hoping it all goes as smoothly as it can and over with because it's actually eating me alive xx

I found out I was pregnant on Friday night, I actually read your thread in my initial panic of googling.

I submitted the online bpas application Friday night. I rang at 7.30am on Saturday and asked for a cancellation appointment and the operator gave me a telephone appointment for 9am (lucky, I know!).

The medication arrived in the post this morning and I have taken the first stage this evening.

The phone call was very easy, not intrusive and the lady I spoke to was so, so lovely.

All the best with your journey and I hope you get the outcome youre after xx