Hello all.. I was wondering if anyone has any advice on how to deal with my partner and his lack of support during my abortion, and the decision to have one. We haven't been together for a huge amount of time, and not long enough to have a child together. I had a contraceptive accident, and given the situation, I have decided to go ahead to have the abortion despite the fact I am nearing the end of my time in my life to possibly have children (don't have any currently, but I do want them).
I am just finding my partner really unsupportive, he has tried to make light of the situation (literally used those words..) hasn't offered to come to any appointments with me, calls me only when it suits him and when he finds it too stressful doesn't bother to call me, and hasn't offered to be with me at all on the day that I take my four tablets tomorrow. I am feeling so down by the whole thing. He has the whole time how he has never felt this way about anyone, but quite frankly the way he's treating me is just baffling. I know i need to look after myself for the next few days, which I will, but I personally don't see anyway back from this for us. Has anyone experienced anything similar to this (i hope you haven't!) but if you have could you share any advice? I'm feeling really low and alone.