Regret

[Howdidigethere23]

It's been 3 weeks since my MA and I'm regretting it so much today. Some days I think it was for the best, forget about it and get on with my day but other days like today I just feel overwhelmed with guilt and sadness. I wish I hadn't of done it, if my husbands reaction was different when I gave him the test I'd of still been pregnant now and it's making me hate him. He had an appointment for the snip today and didn't go because he doesn't know what to do.
I feel like he's massively playing with my emotions. I tell him I regret it and he doesn't have the snip just incase.. just incase what?! He said if I got pregnant it'd be fine, but why wasn't it fine when I was pregnant a few weeks ago😔
I don't just blame him for it, we both decided too but deep down I felt differently and it's coming back to haunt me.
Sorry for the rant but where else could I post about this!

I just went through sort of the same thing recently and am right there with you with the regret. Also having a tough time with my partner and wishing he would of been more supportive of the pregnancy instead of it only being a negative thing. He also says things like if you really want a baby in the future we can, no, i want the baby we were already pregnant with. Tomorrow will be one week and I just keep thinking of what I was doing at this time a week ago, wishing I didn't go to my appt for the SA. Seeing all the pregnany announcements and baby posts while scrolling Facebook doesn't help either. I hope one day we are both able to move on from this and be okay with the decision we made. 😔 you're definitely not alone in this feeling.

Hi, thankyou for replying & I'm sorry your going through the same, I wouldn't wish it on anyone but in away I'm pleased I'm not alone. Awful isn't it 😔 he said the same to me ' If you said you wanted a baby now we'd go and try' but they don't get it do they, I get so frustrated. I'm not sure il beable to look at him the same way I use too and it's awful to think and say but I needed his supportive a few weeks ago and he just wasn't there. I had a feeling I was pregnant & kept getting faint lines so took a digital & shown him, he didn't even lift his head up from his phone. I thought doing as he wanted was the best thing to do because he wouldn't of been there for me throughout the pregnancy.
Sorry I could rant all day about it, he just tells me I'm being dramatic but my heart is just in bits x
I really hope things get better for you as the weeks go on and you manage to sort things out with your partner x