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advice needed

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Anonymity111 · 10/01/2023 00:21

So i found out i'm pregnant today, 6 weeks tomorrow, im F19 nearly 20 and my boyfriend is M20 nearly 21 and he wasn't best pleased, this wasn't planned at all, and he's been super supportive as in being there for me today. He has said he is leaning more to an abortion, as We don't live together, or close to each other. I live on my own. My problem i'm having is i don't think i want an abortion i've watched people around me have them and it ruined them. I don't think i can handle that pain. He said he would help me if i decided to keep it and we would get through it, but i know he's hoping for an abortion. I just can't seem to get my head around it all. Any advice or help would be appreciated ❤️

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heartbroken22 · 10/01/2023 09:21

I always write this on here. Follow your heart and don't let anyone make the decision for you to keep or abort besides yourself. There are times when I've wanted an abortion and I've called the clinics and there are times when I wanted an abortion but I've not called them (because deep down I wanted a baby). You'll figure out what you want. Block everything out and write how you feel having a baby/not having a baby on paper. Whatever decision you make based on that always look back on it when you look back.

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Anonymity111 · 10/01/2023 15:15

heartbroken22 · 10/01/2023 09:21

I always write this on here. Follow your heart and don't let anyone make the decision for you to keep or abort besides yourself. There are times when I've wanted an abortion and I've called the clinics and there are times when I wanted an abortion but I've not called them (because deep down I wanted a baby). You'll figure out what you want. Block everything out and write how you feel having a baby/not having a baby on paper. Whatever decision you make based on that always look back on it when you look back.

Thank you, that's what i keep thinking, i'll definitely take some time to just be by myself and write down my feelings. Just don't want to regret something if i did. Thanks once again!

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