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Abortion help !!

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JessicaAnne2112 · 13/12/2021 21:41

Hello lovely people .....
I am about 6 weeks pregnant I have been in hospital a couple times over last few weeks with awful pain having scans to make sure it's not eptopic , it isn't looking like it is thankfully but we aren't continuing the pregnancy , I'm in so much pain still I had a LLETZ procedure actually 6 weeks prior to finding out we were pregnant so so quick and on the pill so unexpected and I think my body isn't ready or healed enough hence the pain !

Here's the thing all clinics I have rang have nothing this side of Xmas I cried and cried to them with no avail , I have a scan at EPU tomorrow and I'm going to beg them to put me out my misery and prescribe me the pills ! I'm really over it I'm sore and want to stop feeling pregnant , my other kids are at school and hubby can be off with me this week , how Likley am I going to be able to choose what I do with my body I'm so miserable and set on my choice !

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MouseholeCat · 13/12/2021 22:56

I'm sorry you're struggling to access appropriate healthcare for your choice.

Have you booked one of the appointments after Christmas so you have it lined up? Would that mean you would need a D&C at that stage? If it helps, I've had two D&Cs (1 termination, 1 missed miscarriage) and one medically managed miscarriage using the pills and the D&C was hands down the better and easier experience.

Do you have real-life support to help you with the emotional side of this? Being pregnant when you don't want to be and having to wait it out is a truly horrible feeling, and with the pain on top it must be horrible. My heart goes out to you.

JessicaAnne2112 · 13/12/2021 23:32

I have my husband for support , I have booked it yes , but I'm hoping in desperation they help me tomorrow , it is torture to be left like this , and over the Christmas period is just cruel when I'm begging them basically to help me , I'm perfectly able to make choices on my body , just wish someone would listen to me as all the symptoms on top I have get worse week by week it's horrid when you don't want to feel it ! Thanks for the reply

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JessicaAnne2112 · 13/12/2021 23:34

Yes I have a husband but it just feels so cruel to be feeling pregnant etc when you don't want to , and as much as I want surgical over any I'm that desperate I shouted at someone today down the phone I would buy the pills online ! I just don't want to feel it anymore and also being this close to Xmas I don't want it to over shadow I'm so miserable and uncomfortable atm all dosed up daily I'm not good company right now , hoping tomorrw hey help me! I have one booked yes but I'm praying it's over before then 🥺💔🙏

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JessicaAnne2112 · 28/12/2021 19:37

Took longer then I wanted but finally a clinic came through and I had tablets delivered 23rd December I started process 26th then the last bit 27th .... I'm glad it's over it wasn't as bad as I built up although emotional .... I'm out the other side ready to start healing with my family x

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